Mew is a mythical pokemon and cant be transferred. Thats litereally what it says when you try. And when you try to mass select it it says almost the same thing.
So not sure what happened, but it cant be transerred.
That’s what happens when you try to help without being at the side of the person which asks for help.
It seems she doesn’t know much about how the game works… she had tried to put Mew in a Gym and don’t found it in the list. But instead of looking in the normal list she told me that he had disappeared…